Who Do You Call A Friend?

The term 'friend' can be a vague term. Friends can be found on many different levels. Some are acquaintance friends. Some are good friends. And there are those rare ones that we call best friends or close friends.

Growing up I lived in many places and met a variety of individuals. A close friend was and is indeed a rare label for someone in my life. You see, in moving around a lot, it allowed me the opportunity to become a people watcher without getting close. It allowed me see people for who they are, by forcing me to look deeper into the person. I met people who were born into money, and those who weren't. I met fighters, as well as what I call cruisers through life. I learned at a young age that those who fought were stronger than those who cruised. It was those fights that made them strong. 
Through the years I've seen the same pattern and observed how people gain their strength. I have also faced many trials of my own. As a matter of fact, those who are aware of them can't figure out how I'm still sane! J

I can answer that with a verse:
 

Isaiah 43:2 says, "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze."


My strength lies in God. With Him, I can face anything the world even attempts to dish out! He's been through it all with me. Life is not easy. It's the struggles and how you face them that make you who you are. Surround yourself with strong people to help carry you when you can't walk - those core friends are the close friends. Soak in His grace, mercy, and love whenever you can. He will guide your steps when you can't see the path. Trust Him and choose wisely who you call a 'close friend.'